Cultivating Missional Living
Engaging Community
Luke 10:1-12
The Importance of Public Spaces
Isolation is a word that describes the kind of lives many
people are living today. More and more people are spending less and less time
with others. There is less time given to civic participation, connections in
the workplace, involvement in any type of faith based activity, and
neighborhood relationships than ever before. The fact is that more people are
spending time alone than ever before. One possible solution involves
identifying and engaging what I’m going to call, “Third places” in our
communities. Third places are represented by public places of common ground
where people enjoy the company of others.
A couple of questions might be, what examples of isolation
do we see or have we experienced in the lives of people around us? Are things
different than they were 10, 20, 30 years ago? And what are some third places
in our community.
Very soon, in just 2 weeks, we will begin a journey. We will
make our way through the twin texts of Luke-Acts. Very soon Luke 10:1-12 will
become a foundational passage for the future of Ridgecrest. One of the reasons
I say this is that I believe that Luke the writer of both books, is suggesting the way to understand the church in
relationship to our community.
Luke, I believe is suggesting a radically different location
for being the church when the Spirit is breaking our boundaries. Which if you
have paid attention to me at all, you have heard is what I’m suggesting God is
doing at Ridgecrest, in our communities and in our City. ?... What if one of
the most important locations for the church isn’t so much being centered “in
here” as much as it is being located “out there” ? What if an element of what God is saying to us in this passage is that
our nature, our meaning, our role, and our function will be rediscovered only
to the extent we learn to discern what God is up to in the
interactions in our relationships with people in the homes and public spaces of
our neighborhoods and communities. We should ask, why did Jesus send out the
Seventy-two? Where did they go? How does the concept of hospitality, which we
looked at last week, play out in this passage? What can we learn in our
interacting “out there” that we might not be able to discern “in here?”
? What thoughts are you beginning to have when I tell you
that our relevance might only be rediscovered as we interact in our
neighborhood or community? I pray, with only one week left in the first half of
this series that huge questions are rising up within our minds.
Where Everybody Knows You Name
In the late 1980’s and early 90s one of the most popular TV
shows on US television was a show called Cheers. It was set in a bar in the
heart of Boston. A very popular scene was when a particular “regular” would
bust through the front door of the bar and everyone would shout his name in
unison, “Norm!” The tagline for the show was, “Where everybody knows your
name.”
A man named TJ Palmer took this concept of a place people
could call their own and developed the most successful restaurant chain in the
world, Applebee’s, whose restaurants were originally designed around the cheers
set.
The environment within the world of cheers and that desired
in Applebee’s provides a perfect picture of a cultural phenomenon referred to
as a “third place” by sociologist. Places like Starbucks and others have used
this trend to build large chains of Cafes, Coffee Shops, and other Hangouts.
Many of us frequent a form of these third places.
So, what exactly is a third place? Well, a first place is
our home and the people whom we live with. A second place is where we work or
go to school and spend the majority of our waking hours. A third place is a
public setting that host regular, voluntary, and informal gatherings of people.
It is a place to relax and have the opportunity to know and be known by others.
It is a place people like to “hang out.”
So, ?, why is it so important for Jesus followers to
understand the concept of third places? …Because the vast majority of people in
the US are living isolated, relationally impoverished lives, and third places
offer an opportunity for missionally minded people to do life in very close
proximity to others.
Let me share some interesting statistics and changes in the
US in regard to social interaction. Did you know that in the past twenty years
the number of people who bowl has increased dramatically? But, the number of
people who bowl in a league is very small. In the past a bowling alley was a
very popular third place. Most people who bowled there bowled in a league. And
it is estimated that as much as a third of adults bowled in a league.
Another third place of the past was the 1950 and 60
phenomena of the game of bridge. It is estimated that by 1958 one-third of all
adults, men and women, at that time, gathered once a week for club games. This
spread through dorm rooms and student unions in the 60s and 70s and millions of
college students spent millions of hours in seemingly endless games of bridge.
On college campuses mixed double clubs developed and it became a very important
way for men and women to gather informally. The very rules of the game,
limiting talk among partners about their cards, encouraged conversation about
topics other than the game itself.
Now people play card games and numerous other games alone on
their phone or tablets. The problem, when we play games alone, we obviously do
not participate in the social interaction and community that occurs in leagues
or teams or club environments.
Now, let this sink in, just a few decades ago, once a week,
the majority of our population, was in a bowling alley, living room or college
student union or dorm room spending the evening with other families or friends.
Today we have substituted things like television and computers and tablets. The
reality is that we usually engage them all alone.
What I’m saying is that this deterioration of social
connections in our communities should drive us to action. As followers of Jesus
we know we were created as relational beings. We know that God designed us to
be in deep, abiding relationship with Him. But we also understand that we were
created to be in life-giving relationships with one-another. The idea of
millions of lonely people sitting at home, remote control, tablet, mouse, phone
in hand, dying relationally from the lack of basic human connection should
inspire us to bring about change. But, what can we do? Let me say some things
in regard to third places.
Third Places
Identify and Enter
First, we must take the time to identify the third places in
our neighborhood. Where do people gather to spend time with others? Where are
the typical places, the cafes and coffee shops and other hangouts? And where
are some atypical places where people come together. Maybe libraries, parks,
workout places. We may need to think outside the box when identifying where
people gather. But then once we identify them, we must then seek to engage these
places. As we discussed way back in the second message in this series, this will involve embedding our lives
incarnationally into third places. Listening and learning where God is at
work, and asking how we can participate in what God is doing!
Create Environments
This is one that is often talked about. Churches attempt to
open coffee shops or libraries. We plant community gardens hoping to encourage
people to work together. But when we do these things they often become more
about members rather than reaching our community. Coffee shops for members,
libraries for members to study the Bible, gardens that members use….Good
things, but we must keep our minds set on ways to be creative in the way we
think about common space in our neighborhoods, and how they may enhance
relational connections.
Support and Defend
Now this one may sound unusual. But in some ways we may need
to become urban planning advocates. If we are committed to the importance of
relationships for the health and vitality of our communities. We should involve
ourselves in anything,. parks, bike trails, and anything else that would
enhance the opportunity for a richer public life.
So, our engagement with third places should first flow out
of our desire to see those who are relationally
disconnected drawn into life-giving relationships with others, and ultimately
with the giver of life. And, secondly, it should flow out of the
recognition that as an increasing number of people are less interested in the
activities of the church, it is we, as the missionary people of God, who have
to engage others on common ground, or third places.